If it feels like your relationship is failing and it might be over sooner than you think, you're probably pretty down on yourself right now. Accepting the fact that romance is totally dead can be heartbreaking. You might start asking yourself something like, “where did it go wrong, is it my fault?”
But even with self-deprecating inner commentary like this, it is important to remember that you are NOT to blame for falling out of love. When the romance is gone.